been a great weekend.. =)

AG prepared a nice dinner..hee..meatballs and seafood fish fingers, and lobster soup which he bought it from supermarket..hahahhaa.. =p oops.

and he gave me a heart-shaped box of chocolates..quite an abrupt method of giving me the gift..hahahahaa..

and i made a relatively thick oreo cheesecake..with thick layer of oreo base..and a layer of oreo in the middle of the cake..
what made me touched was tat he enjoyed the cake and he finished almost the whole of the cake..and he swopped big spoon of cake when he ate...it's touching to watch him eat the cake which i first made for him...
and i even asked him several times whether he likes the cake and whether the cake is delicious..hahaa...

i wanna make more types of cheesecakes for him in the future..hee hee hee hee heee...

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Woke up fatigue, partly cos of a small cup of dessert wine which i gulped down pretty quickly..pretty bad hangover...hahaa =p

hee..met up with ZJ they all for lunch..! so happy to see them..but haa..i was pretty tired that i also did not really talk much..and very slow to respond..hahhaa..

and can't wait for the next gathering..!! S has a Wii system at home...!!! and we are intending to arrange for a chalet during a weekend..!!

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on my way home with ZJ they all, we had an interesting topic about guys..haha..

we realise tat we can't really tolerate our bfs/partners to have many female good/close frens..haha..but well, it's easily understood...it's the insecurity which many females develop it..when they are attached or even during the dating period..

think it's applied to guys?

haha..well, r/s needs 2 hands to clap..both parties must know when and how to draw a clear line when relating with female/male frens..assurrance, communication and truthfulness probably are the ingredients to building up confidence and trust in the r/s..

once i had a sorta 'discussion' with a fren in uni..used to agree tat self-confidence is very important in r/s, especially when one party has many good/close opposite gender frens..

now when i think about this statement, i realise that self-confidence, many times, need to be coupled with assurance from the other party...assurrance through words and most importantly actions can build up the self-confidence for both parties..and both need not question their self-attraction too much cos they know from each other, through words and actions, why they are still committed and attracted to each other over tis long period of time...

however, then again, this is an ideal and optimistic way of looking at r/s...isn't it?

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